1. FIRST RULE - Never give out any sensitive information to anyone unless you are 100% sure you trust them. Don’t give any potential daters your address, or even your phone number until you are pretty well into your online conversations with them Think about setting up a user name and separate email address - very easy with someone like Yahoo or Hotmail - rather than risk being pestered on your work or home email. Do not even HINT as to your financial affairs. Unfortunately, there are crims about who are after your identity and or cash. BE SENSIBLE, as you would when meeting anyone new.

2. If you do find someone you would like to meet, get together in a well lit, populated place and make sure you can get home safely. Meet in the day or early evening if possible so you are not stuck for transport home. It is not sensible to have your date come to your home until you get to know one another. Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to get home. If love grabs you instantly and you decide to stay out later than intended, let your friend know. Maybe even get them to phone/text you an hour  or so into the date so you have an excuse to leave it it’s a disaster.

3. LADIES please, I’m sure you don’t need to be told, but don’t dress too indecently on your first date unless you are really on the pull. A lot of the men using internet dating sites are only after one thing and unless you are too, be careful!  BLING, TOYS & CASH. Don’t be flash. Leave the bling and diamond studded mobile at home, at least on the first date.

4. Most daters are nice, ordinary people looking for companionship and a good time but the odd bad apple will always be around so STAY ALERT and HAVE FUN

5. We have designed our UK DATING SITE to appeal to the OVER 30s, OVER 40s, OVER 50s and SENIOR CITIZENS though it is open to all ages. There are so many MATURE DATERS in the country looking for companionship that you have a good chance of finding some really good new friends.  Don’t let the fact that you have passed the first flush of youth be a deterrent - GO FOR IT AND HAVE FUN!

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