Rediscover Sex In Your Fifties
Don’t give up on love in middle age
It’s never to late to discover/rediscover a happy and fulfilling love life, even if our 40th birthdays have long gone. According to an article in this week’s ‘Sunday Times Style Magazine’, by Susan Seligson (click or cut & paste the link into your address bar to read the article), http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/body_and_soul/article6964876.ece sex in middle age can be vastly superior to youthful thrashing about, and just gets better. Since all kids think they invented sex, a lot of us who started experimenting with it in the 60s and 70s (or before) now realise this is not true. Just as we are creaking into our middle or older years, we know that the young are not the only ones capable of enjoying a sexual relationship. In fact, keeping an active sex life going cheers us up and helps keep the body & mind in good order, and makes us feel sexier….
As we get older, we become more confident and more demanding, or should do. Who of us at 21 would have be brave enough to complain about lousy service in a restaurant or indifferent sex, whereas now, with many years of good and bad experiences behind us, I hope we would be able to do both. Any of us who are in our 40s, 50s and above should have an idea of what we like and should feel able to ask for it. ‘How would you like your steak cooked?’ - ‘Up a bit, down a bit, slower, faster, softer’ etc. Easier said than done I expect, but we should be less influenced by our peers when we get older and more accepting of our own, and our partner’s imperfections. We have 100s of single men and women on www.footloosedating.co.uk looking for another chance in life and by meeting lots of new people, we have a better chance of linking up with someone we fancy. Make 2010 the year you rediscover your sensuality.
Posted 30th December 2009 08:47:58 by Natalie Crosland